The third day of Sonya and Faisal’s wedding was their reception.  I shot the first two evenings alone, so I was really excited to show Nic everything I had been raving about for the past two days!

Sonya’s updos were gorgeous each night!

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Sonya’s makeup artist, Danica, was totally fantastic and sweet and adorable to boot!  I highly recommend her (check out her blog for makeup tips).

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Sonya’s sister, Farah, is just as gorgeous as Sonya!

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It was a stressful afternoon for Sonya, so it was great to see her smile!

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Getting ready to put on her bracelets:

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The hall looked incredible, all ready for the 450 guests.

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Nic and I both adored the cake.  It was decorated to reflect Sonya’s mehndi, and was just as gorgeous as her hands!

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They were running late, so we had to scratch the bride and groom pictures, but I had Faisal pose for some quick groom portraits:

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I love this shot of Sonya’s dad giving a toast:

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After the toasts, we were treated to more choreographed dances Bollywood style!

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And when the dance floor opened up…WOWZA!  Even the little ones had more dancing skills than me!

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Behind the scenes:  Three days in a row of shooting after midnight and driving back to the Springs had me pretty tired!  I’m pretty lucky I didn’t look like this!  ;)

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Nic asked me how me and my Red Bull were coming along.  I felt better just knowing it was in my trusty Shootsac.

And this is my all time favorite best EVAH behind the scenes shot.  Bored flower girls are the best!

A huge huge huge giant thank you to Sonya and Faisal and their families for making us feel so welcome.   It was an honor to get to see a wedding so different from our usual ceremonies!

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Day two of Sonya and Faisal’s wedding was the actual wedding ceremony–signing the marriage license, exchanging rings, officially becoming Mr and Mrs.

The venue was the same, but the decor completely different:

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Sonya’s mom got her outfit from Pakistan, and it was breathtaking. Pictures don’t do it sparkly justice!

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One of the things that really struck me about the ceremonies was how visible the support from Sonya and Faisal’s family and friends was.  From being escorted into the ceremonies, to being fed fruit and sweets at the Mehndi, to getting ready backstage, their family and friends were very present.  Here are a few shots I love of Sonya’s getting ready crew:

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Look at all these hands ready to help!

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Exchanging the rings:

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As the evening came to an end, Sonya’s family stole Faisal’s shoes.  I had everyone fill me in as negotiations began for his shoes.  It’s an Indian wedding tradition for the bride’s family to steal the groom’s shoes…in order to leave with her, he has to buy them back.  As figures from $25 to $1000 were tossed around, I asked a few people nearby what a usual sum was.  One woman said her family held out for $500, and the man keeping Faisal’s shoes hidden said he’d had to pay $750!  (At this point I asked what was to keep Faisal from just walking out barefoot [or bringing along an extra pair of shoes] and people looked at me like I was nuts: tradition keeps him from leaving!)

Here is Sonya’s brother as he grabbed Faisal’s shoes (I love that he tossed a triumphant look back to the crowd):

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In an unexpected turn of events, Faisal’s mother promptly stole them back!

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Sonya’s family got their hands on them again somehow (it was crowded and loud and crazy and AWESOME and tough to see exactly how that happened), and then the bidding began.  Some of my faves (I told Faisal about these at the reception the next day–I know he’ll get a kick out of them)!

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Is it just me, or is Faisal totally channeling Zoolander with a little Blue Steel in this shot?!

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Remember how I said it was chaotic?  I wasn’t lying!

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Jubilation when they reached a settlement:

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After that, Sonya got marriage advice from the other married women and then it was time to leave.  Sonya’s departure from the ceremony was especially touching, because it marked her move from her parent’s house to her new life with Faisal.  This part of the ceremony has a name at Muslim weddings: the rukhsati.  There were plenty of tears and it reminded me of when Nic and I left for our wedding/move to Virginia.  As Sonya cried with her sister, it reminded me of how I cried with mine, and how lucky she is to have a word for that transition!

Sonya saying goodbye to her best friend: 

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But don’t be sad, because everyone got back together the next day for the reception.  (In other words: get ready for some AMAZING dancing pictures in the next sneak peek from Nicolas!)

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I spent three days last week at Sonya and Faisal’s Indian / Pakistani wedding. It was a giant treat for me to get to experience their traditions and spend three consecutive nights with their family and friends. We got to know them so much better because of all the extra time we spent together! And of course I am totally enamored with their cultures. I hope we will have the opportunity to shoot many more Indian and Pakistani weddings!

For all of their sneak peek posts, I am going to do my best to name and describe things, but forgive me if I make a few mistakes! For my pre-wedding research, I spent a lot of time at this blog about Indian wedding photography.

In terms of the back end work, it’s a lot like proofing three separate weddings that just happened to be back-to-back, so my proofing isn’t going as quickly as I’d anticipated. So instead of one giant sneak-peek, I’m going to do a couple. Here are a few pictures from the first night.

Sonya’s family and friends completely transformed the hall. There were so many amazing textures and colors.

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If you’re thinking that I must have thought I was in color and fabric heaven, you’re totally right!

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Sonya was carried in by her family:

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Faisal’s arrival was marked by cheers and shouts as he entered the hall with his family:

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They were fed sweets and fruit by family and friends:

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And then the entertainment was turned over to their family and friends. There were choreographed dances that blew me away and the coolest video skit EVER.

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Next installment coming soon!

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